Testimonials

Regardless of whether they sought me for executive coaching or life coaching, my clients experienced the benefits of coaching because we focused on what matters most – inner work.

Here are the experiences of some of my clients, as shared in their own words.

Ellery helped me create major positive shifts in my relationships. He supported me in reclaiming the freedom and personal dignity that comes from having healthy boundaries.

I’ve had a past of saying “Yes” to others and causing damage to myself. In my career, I took on more than I can do, because I was unable to say “No”. I also had difficulty communicating my own thoughts and needs, and silently accepted the contrary opinions of others. As a result, the people in my life experienced outbursts of resentment from me. To them, it came out of nowhere. But for me, it was bottling up for a long time. In this way, I would cycle through anxiety, anger and guilt. I knew I could communicate better, but just didn’t know how.

Through an ad, I chanced upon Ellery and decided to take action. I didn’t know what to expect, but he quickly made me feel at ease. Through artful exploration, Ellery helped me to understand how the way I carry myself affects how others view me. He also helped me to uncover blindspots in the way that I communicate. I was able to see what was missing in my relationships - things that I could do and say to take care of myself, but didn’t.

Most memorable for me, was when I discovered how to say “No”, in a way that felt powerful yet safe to express. It was quite an emotional breakthrough for me. I understood that I have a voice and I can use it to do what I needed to do for myself and be heard.

The effects in my life were real! I was able to protect myself from resentment and burnout at work. I was able to push back unreasonable requests and unwanted opinions without feeling defensive and angry. At home, the communication with my husband became more open, allowing us to be better partners in parenting.

I can now ask for what I need without damaging relationships; there is ease and peace.

The work that Ellery does is profound, because he goes deep beyond the surface. He can help you to take control of your emotions, and unlock your ability to do what you wish to do.

If you want to greatly improve your communication, relationships and confidence, Ellery is your coach. He has both the empathy and expertise to help you.

Meena Kumaree | Singapore

Teacher, Ministry of Education

Ellery is a master of his craft. He has guided me through a period of my life where I need someone to help me. What you learn with Ellery will help you for the rest of your life. He has my deepest gratitude and thanks for sharing his skills and knowledge with me. Before coaching with Ellery I didn't know how to interpret my moods and emotions. After, I was able to understand how to use the body and mind to control my thoughts. The biggest awareness for me was being shown that it was possible to use my body to control my moods and emotions. By doing exercises and mindfulness breathing I was able to calm my thoughts and manage myself better. Ellery has a gift of being able to guide me to realise things about myself that can improve me as a person. It is clear that he is able to help people from all walks of life.

Daniel Whisby | UK / Singapore

IMYC & IGCSE Teacher, Middleton International School

It was a pleasure to work with Ellery as my coach. He helped achieve clarity by cutting through the clutter to identify problems that were blind spots. He helped reorganize, refocus and anchor on goals, which sets challenges in new perspective.

His guidance on effecting change not just mentally, but on a physical level, was an eye-opener. It was a liberating and transformative experience from inside out. It is a process of co-creation, where the coachee steers, while Ellery guides from beside.

I would definitely recommend Ellery as a coach. He listens very attentively, is not afraid to be frank, goes the extra mile and is clearly passionate about what he does.

Stella Lau | Singapore

Senior Manager, Institute of Singapore Charted Accountants

I did 10 sessions with Ellery and it was actually very life-changing for me. Each and every session was jam-packed with the guidance and new perspectives I sorely needed. Some even of things I didn't even know were a block for me. I really enjoyed how Ellery always made me feel very heard and never once told me what to do. Instead, the self-discoveries he led me on were a lot more impactful that I had ever expected. It led me to form better habits in my career, at home, socially. I would recommend Ellery to everyone. Working with him was highly worth the investment as I am left with so many tools I can use for a lifetime and I have been freed in many ways.
Rachel Wan | Singapore

Television Actress

I just finished a session with Ellery where he provided incredibly useful guidance in his coaching capacity. I have been struggling with certain decisions with regards to my career and Ellery helped to recognize key points of resistance as well as enthusiasm that unlocked the ability for me to develop insight. I felt supported and challenged without being stressed which was a class act in itself. I would definitely recommend Ellery as someone to work with as a coach where you need someone who is willing to care and be present while providing sharp observations and guidance.
Rovik Robert | Singapore

Senior Associate, Business Environment, Singapore Economic Development Board (EDB)

Coach El has helped me move away from my All or Nothing attitude in my professional life by providing me with easy-to-use tools and a range of possible outcomes to focus on rather than a weakly perceived, rigid one. The main tools are my body language, breathing exercise and posture when I engage with my clients, candidates and colleagues. The sessions help me to align what my brain wants and how I can tap my body language as well as verbal language effectively to acheive the desired outcomes. Coach El has helped me through a difficult and frustrating second half of 2020 caused by the global pandemic as each session has been freeing in helping me 'see' that different outcomes can be seen with positivity. The rigidity and short-sightedness of the previous lens I used to 'wear' has been slowly replaced by a softer, gentler and more flexible pair of glasses through which I try and view the world today. Thanks a ton, Coach El.
Jag Dhaliwall | Malaysia / Singapore

Co-founder & Managing Director, Principal Partners

My coaching experience with Ellery was definitely very good for me. I felt really heard and guided into this assertive approach of the Body / Emotion / Language, how they all must grow together. I actually felt a difference in my posture and its positive consequences, either in myself or in the communication with others.

I trust Ellery to coach me, I’ve found him to be very professional, focused in my best interests, always leading me to know more about myself and my behaviour. I find him to be a good coach, as he has this accurate understanding on the many issues that we talked about in our sessions and is able to address them assertively.

I definitely recommend Ellery as a coach, to anyone who wants to deal better with their challenges in life.

Marlene Gonçalves | Portugal

Secretariat, Jaime Freitas, Advogado

Ellery is an incredibly talented and a born natural life coach. His values-centered and ontological guidance challenged me to think beyond “the flat line of reality” and helped me focus more on finding my inner peace at work and in my life in general. He helped me regulate my thoughts, actions and passions and even helped me accept the past and giving me dedicated tools helping me focus on the present. Ellery is a dedicated coach with a lots of resources to shared. You won't regret this investment in yourself. Millions Thanks Ellery, I feel a million tons lighter.
Jacques Deschambeault | Canada / Singapore

Senior Rigger, Ubisoft

Being coached by Ellery has been illuminating. I brought a topic which I have some clarity over, but have been struggling to understand and manage for years. With swift and artful techniques, Ellery created a lot of clarity, enabled me to experience epiphanic moments and motivated me to take action after each coaching session. I am also particularly grateful for his support during an acute phase of my life in the last 3 months. Thank you, Ellery!
Goh Mei Ling | Singapore

Senior Assistant Director, Division of Graduate Medical Studies, National University of Singapore

Ellery coached me through a challenging career move. His strengths lie in combining theory and practice in a fun and relevant manner. As a coach, Ellery is observant, thoughtful and sharp. His questioning helped me clarify my thought processes and improve my self awareness. He is also versatile and adapts quickly to different needs and requests with humour and energy.

What I found most helpful was his range of practical coping mechanisms and strategies for stress management, and his knack for explaining the science or psychology behind it. My new awareness of my body movement for example helps me improve my health and better regulate my emotions.

If you are looking for a coach to work with you for better self awareness and performance, or if you’re looking for ways to work through change, I highly recommend Ellery.

Claryce Lum | Singapore

Lead Editor, Communications, Think Tank Studio

His dedication to work and two-way communication allowed me to manage my thoughts and goals that I want. He taught me exercises that I could practice by myself to grow to a better person. Coaching with Ellery has left me with a clearer mind and direction.

Dyan Tan | Singapore

Marketing Executive, AIA Singapore

I felt instantly connected to El on my first session and I felt safe to open up to someone fully for the first time. As someone who is always looking to improve myself as a person, I have spent at least hundreds of hours on self help books and videos but El managed to provide me with realisations about myself and practical steps on how to overcome each limiting thoughts/belief in just a short 2 hours session.

Through my experiences with him, I felt that the methods and guidance that was provided by El are very personalised to my own life and needs. There were definitely breakthroughs during the first few sessions but I knew that it was not enough but it was enough for me to see the importance of coaching, which made me motivated to see this through. I decided to take up the 10 sessions with El and I have gained more value than I expected. They have manifested in my business, my relationship with my love ones and most importantly, the relationship with myself.

What fascinates me the most is the space that El is able to hold. When I am in the room with El, naturally things that I don't feel or think about starts to surface and I was able to pour them out safely to him without any fear of judgement and without the fear it that it may be too messy as he was able to pick and select the tip of the string from the mental knot. El does not give me any opinionated solutions but rather, he paints a mind map and make my thoughts and feelings so clear in front of me that I'll know how to intervene them based on what I want in my life. I start to see the importance of being able to voice out your thoughts and feelings to someone who is professionally trained and have them arranged and explained. You're doing an amazing job El! I sincerely do hope people start to see value in your work as it is literally life changing!

Andy Yeo | Singapore

Founder & Head Therapist, Optimus Animal Rehabilitation

When I was first introduced to coaching, I was doubtful about the idea of it as I knew nothing much about it and could not imagine the great impact it would have on my life. I also imagined it to be quite scary to open up to someone with my own thoughts (that I tend to judge myself for).

This is why a good coach is very important and I am so glad I met El. He always manages to create a very safe space for me to speak up and he has made my journey of self-work more enjoyable than I imagined it to be. Every session leaves me more curious and excited to work on the areas that initially felt so entangled and heavy.

The greatest benefit I got from our coaching would be the ability to replace harmful self criticisms with acceptance and love. This single internal change alone has brought many visible results in different aspects of my life - my emotional and mental health, productivity at work and my relationships.

So, THANK YOU EL! You’re a really awesome coach and inspiring person. My self-work will continue because of you. Keep doing what you do!

Tan Hui-Ling | Singapore

Area General Manager, Nefful International

Hi Ellery, just wanted to say a big “thank you" on your coaching over the past few months.

I’m glad that I have decided to work with you. It is really great how easy to be open with you to share with you my thoughts and in the process, you are sharp and could identify with me the perspectives that I didn’t see for myself. It’s like I have a mirror now to look at the blindspots that I have missed or undiscovered.

Your coaching has also helped me to reconnect and realigned deeply with my thoughts, which brings CLARITY that has moved me to be effective in life, in areas of my work, in my relationships and my confidence.

In applying simple techniques that you shared with me, I overcame the anxiety to speak with people of higher social status.

Thank you again and would definitely recommend you to anyone looking for a great coach, who wants to better themselves. Cheers 😉

Richard Woo | Singapore

Senior Financial Consultant, Prudential Assurance Company

My experience and journey thus far with Ellery as my life coach had been a really fruitful and fulfilling one. What was really assuring to me since day one was that Ellery would emphasize that the goal wasn't really to change me as a person completely, or to push pieces of advice to me in a way that would seem compelling for me to act upon. What he strives to do with me is to open up another side of the range that is either an opposite or contrasting to what I have within my current range. Gaining success in this endeavour would grant me more choices and alternatives to choose from when I’m faced with a situation in my everyday life that requires a direct/indirect respond from me.

The journey had since pushed me out of my comfort zone in both the areas of private self-work like meditation and personal reflection to everyday outward-facing moments like dealing with challenges such as situational restrictions, to managing relationships with different personality types. I have to say coaching with Ellery had definitely given me less suffering in my everyday life; more control, as well as the space to be bold to explore better alternatives and approaches and be capable of certain other ranges that would bring me results which previously, I would not have imagined them to be possible for me.

Jasper Toh | Singapore

Regional Marketing Portfolio Analyst, CooperVision

Within a session, Ellery had helped to highlight various patterns in my behaviours and thoughts, which had previously remained overlooked or blatantly ignored. As a psychologist, I often identify patterns in others, but working with Ellery helped me to realise that there are always blindspots when it comes to oneself. We really don't know what we don't know, and it's always good to have another person's objective point of view. It was a really useful session, and I came out of it with valuable insights into my situation.

Sylvie Lian | Singapore

Clinical Psychologist, Community Psychology Hub

I was looking for a personalised and targeted solution for anxiety because reading and watching content for the masses was not exactly working anymore. Ellery was able to sieve out painpoints quickly and provide targeted customised advice in every session. I always came out of each session motivated and more equipped to face those challenges. Having a personal coach is definitely more effective in helping me organise my thoughts and road to self improvement. Thank you Ellery!
Eliza Teo | Singapore

VP, Personal Financial Services, Deposits and Wealth Management, UOB

With Ellery, his coaching enabled me to explore my thoughts with more clarity. The questions he asked does not make me feel defensive and awkward. Overall, it was quite comfortable and easy to communicate without the fear of being judged by him.

The sessions were professionally conducted and he listens attentively and mindfully. Coaching made me aware that I have blind spots that I would otherwise not know unless its pointed out by someone whom I can trust and feel vulnerable with. What I find useful is when he points out alternative perspectives that I would have otherwise not thought on my own.

I would recommend coaching for anyone who is stuck in life or having issues seeing things with clarity. It certainly saves a lot of time figuring out your own head and flaws on your own.

Rei Lim | Malaysia

Marketing Manager, Transtel Technology (M) Sdn. Bhd.

Ellery is a highly perceptive and insightful coach. In our session, he was keen to listen and point out patterns I wasn’t able to see before. He’s also the rare kind of coach who is able to both communicate and demonstrate live key concepts about mind-body connections. I would recommend Ellery to anyone looking to improve themselves holistically and see things from a different perspective.
Soon Tiac C. | Singapore

Product Designer, Piktochart

I engaged Ellery as a life coach during time of struggle. I was feeling lost and needed to find clarity in life. Also, running a business and leading can be stressful. The internal voices can quickly push you to a state of distress. Throughout our coaching duration, Ellery has helped to unroot the tension that I’m feeling by going deep to the root cause, changing the stories that I’m telling myself and empowered me with tools and ideas to shift my emotional state of mind during downtimes. Tough times are the test of emotion fitness. When I recognise, understand and started managing the emotions, clarity begins to emerge. As a business owner and leader, it feels easier to make certain decisions and this translates into clarity for the team. I believe there are many more good things to come as I practice and apply the lessons learned. Thank you for the wonderful sessions!
Eric Chan | Malaysia

Founder & CEO, RecursiveX

Ellery is a visionary who helps you become a visionary yourself. Through breath and inner work, he was able to describe in breadth, from a 3rd person's view, what is key to helping you realize what is inside; within your deepest spiritual desires and the cloud blocking possible paths. I say spiritual desires because he places your personal values into the equation. Ponder upon his words and you will find his advice come back in a full circle.
Cheng Hui Jie | Singapore

Regional Marketing & Communications Exec, Paradise Group Holdings Pte Ltd

I had a very good experience with El. He provided a safe space for me to share my problems and asked me various questions to help me view things from different perspectives.

El demonstrated a lot of empathy during our sessions and truly cares for his clients by following up after. I would recommend El to people who are searching for clarity in their struggles as well as those who wants to take an active role in self-improvement. Thanks El!

Lynn Teo | Singapore

Senior Business Partner Content EMEA, Coty

During an initial 2hrs zoom call, Ellery caught me using words which indicated how my limiting beliefs were restricting me in my life.

As we continued for more sessions, Ellery helped me identify various breakdowns and offered valuable insights and perspectives coupled with session practice to help me overcome them. I personally have a set of struggles with feeling tense in situations which do not call for it.

With Ellery's help, I could better see and assess and be aware that I have inbuilt automatic responses and this knowledge allows me to pick and choose how I want to react.There were many 'wow' moments for me as I never saw things from a different perspective.

Ellery possess a broad spectrum of knowledge and wisdom in the field of personal coaching and definitely one to consult for personal growth and breakthroughs.

Jacky Lim | Singapore

Master Financial Consultant, Prudential Assurance Company

Ellery is extremely versatile and had coached me on a range of issues that I was facing in my personal and professional lives, such as overcoming self-limiting beliefs and improving interpersonal relationships.

He has the knack for asking illuminating questions, prompting me to dig deep into my thoughts and reframe my mindset. With his guidance, I now have a set of mental tools at my disposal to help me navigate through life's uncertainties.

Above all, I appreciate the sensitivity that he brings to each session. His patience and attentiveness made me feel at ease in opening up about my struggles.

I would highly recommend Ellery to anyone who wants to embark on a journey towards a more fulfilling life.

Jolene Quek | Singapore

Senior Account Manager, AiChat

Ellery was really calm and collected, which provided a stable space for me to share my struggles. He was able to recognise emotions well and helped me to gain more distinctions and clarity about them, which allowed me to understand what I needed to work on.
Priscilla Ng | Singapore

Nurse & Medical Student, National University Hospital

Ellery has helped me reframe the way I perceive myself in relation to the world. I hadn't realised how much of my perceptions were really the result of self-talk and assumptions. Ellery points out the language I use and how it affects the way I feel when I interact with the world. On a more tangible level, coaching with Ellery enabled me to manage my feelings of burnout during the COVID19 crisis as well as paying attention to my posture and physical stance. I was able to be more assertive in my requests to my colleagues and managers. And I’ve been able to adopt a more relaxed stance both physically and mentally to issues at work.

Vikram Ramankutty | Dublin

Digital Transformation Consultant, KPMG Ireland

As a client, I get to set the topic for the session. It is super focused and with Ellery's guidance, I was able to gain clarity and become "unstuck". The solutions are immediately applicable and I feel good that, if I ever get stuck again, I know I can repeat the process and overcome the obstacles.

If, like me, you want to gain some super powers to overcome your obstacles in life, I encourage you to start coaching with Ellery!

Mariyya Ja'afar | Singapore

Financial Services Consultant, Legacy FA Pte. Ltd.

I was lost and struggled to see clarity for a few issues in my life when I decided to look for a suitable life coach. Eventually, I met Ellery. He was observant, patient and managed to pinpoint the root of an issue during the session with him. Above all, I was impressed with his ability to help shift my mindset/perspective and provided me with valuable and sustainable techniques. His methods and examples are so relatable which help me to gain more clarity while reducing anxiety.
Shieleen Heng | Singapore

Trainer & Developer, National Healthcare Group

Ellery has helped me a lot in my day to day interaction with people especially my loved ones. I used to be a “skeptical” person who’s scared to try something new but with the help of my coaching with Ellery, I became more open on trying new things and receptive of feedbacks and opinions of other people.

Because of me being more open now, I can see the improvement in my communication and relationship with my loved ones and I am closer to them again. This is the most significant shift after coaching with Ellery. I started my coaching journey because a lot of misunderstandings and tension had been piling up between my loved ones and I.

Ellery helped me to speak out my mind (without overthinking), lay out my intentions, listen intently and not jump into conclusions, allowing me to improve my relationships with the people around me.

If you wish for more openness and stronger relationships, I will recommend coaching with Ellery, as he can help on how to see/filter things in a more positive and open way.

Felicia Andes | Singapore / Philippines

Customer Success Manager, HP

I was facing challenges in the real world that I could not make sense of then and thought I knew about myself pretty well. El helped me unravel some of the thoughts that were all tied up together, breaking them down into smaller parts to look at and work on.

One significant part of the session was the concept of pain and suffering. It got me looking at it from a different perspective and how purposeful suffering was creating value of work that I have long became jaded to see. I was also able to let myself off the hook for wanting to fit into society's mould and be reminded to grow at my own pace.

I appreciate Ellery for his dedication, passion and focus in helping others. I recommend Ellery if you are seeking ways to improve, recalibrate or change.

Lim Qian Hao | Singapore

Teacher

I'd recommend Ellery to anyone who's aware that they're in a loop or cycle that they can't break out of and needs some professional, external and unbiased coaching to help them become aware of how to move out of that zone. It's really hard to change something when you can't see the 'blindspots' and I think that's very applicable in this situation.

I was in a very bad place in my personal life and I needed some guidance, advice, help and feedback to organize my thoughts and find a way forward out of what seemed like a constant downward spiral of negativity and guilt. I was trying to control everything in my life.

After coaching with Ellery, I feel a lot more at peace with myself; with who I was and how I came to be who I am. And how to truly love and be compassionate towards myself first so that I may be towards others as well. I'm more confident in myself, I know that I'll figure things out even when things get messy and I know that life will be okay even if it doesn't go according to plan.

I loved and respected the fact that Ellery is not one to shy away from calling me out on my shit. As someone who loves to over-rationalize, it's easy to end up making excuses for myself and frame the narrative as a fixed story in my head. I also think that Ellery’s very skilled at sifting through all my stories (and Lord knows I love to tell my stories to explain myself) and finding the root of my unhappiness or dissatisfaction, which really neatens the whirlwind of thoughts and opinions and feelings in my head which are all entangled amongst each other.

Aaron Mossadeg | Singapore

Television Actor

From Ellery’s coaching, I gained a wider repertoire of techniques and methods that I could apply to recalibrate my way of being.

The psycho-somatic exercises I learnt from him were particularly useful. They help me better recognise my psycho-social needs as I process my past psycho-emotional and physical experiences that may have been traumatic.

The body is an archive. Accessing these stored physical sensations via the use of customised exercises helps process past kinesthetic 'reactions'. It is a compelling method to intentionally process difficult, recurring emotions that may be entrapping me.

During our coaching sessions, Ellery functioned as a critical sounding board, offering me much-needed safety, while nudging and prodding me on my self-work journey. His approach is collaborative (and for me, particularly educational). This safeguarded my agency. It was without a doubt, enabling.

Ellery is an attentive observer, which allows him to support my effort to think more reflexively. As a result, I become more adept at noticing my thought patterns.

His repertoire and understanding of crucial psychological concepts made our coaching conversations insightful and productive. As a coach, Ellery recognises the appropriate moments and ways to address an array of presenting needs.

If you want Ellery’s support, you HAVE to want to help yourself. This decision requires a collaborative commitment. Coaching requires you to be critically reflective - and honest - about the decisions, thoughts and habits that you unconsciously or consciously cling on to, so you can be freed to experience your present as wholesome, healthy and edifyingly-meaningful.

Juraimy Abu Bakar | Singapore

Civil Servant

I approached coach El with the intention to find purpose. With his help, he provided me tools to help with focus and decision-making, which helped me in my everyday life.

El helped me identify a limiting belief and with his help, overcome this belief which has given me the confidence to identify further limiting beliefs and find ways to overcome them.

El provides a safe space for you to be vulnerable. He is patient and understanding, which shows he really loves his job. This allows you to explore aspects of your life with him in an environment that fosters awareness, which turns into understanding and growth.

Given these tools I have a better understanding of myself to work through and identify areas where I can improve my own life and reach my goals and purposes. He uses experiential learning in his sessions which brought me into taking action in the real world, so that the progress and clarity is real.

I would recommend coach El to anyone looking to improve areas of themselves. He is dedicated to helping you. However, you need to put the work in to see results.

Jasper Hartono | Jakarta / Singapore

Group Business Process Manager, Delta Insurance Group

Before I met Ellery, I was unmotivated both in my personal and work life. But his coaching sessions transformed me within 2 months.

With Ellery's support, I reconnected with my good habits and got back on my routines. I started my regular walks, set time for meditation. As a result, I managed to complete my tasks on time without distractions!

His practical tips and tools enabled me to increase my confidence in handling difficult situations and stakeholders when I joined a new company during covid period. His techniques are effective because they work both in your mind and in your body.

I would highly recommend him to anyone who want positive changes and impact in their lives. Ellery is a coach who can spot the root of your problems fast and helps you to formulate your own solutions.

Janet Aisyah Quek | Singapore

Global HRBP, FrieslandCampina

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